you must be feeling but can only imagine the pains you are dealing with. I pray that God gives you peace to deal with the situation. My wife and I are 3 months away from 40 years that seem like yesterday. You and your wife are the REAL DEAL marriage marathoners. You are so lucky to have been blest with 60 years. I hope my wife and I are lucky enough to be blest with another 20 before we have to deal with the inevitable.